The root of all unattractiveness is Neediness; the reason for all attractiveness is non-Neediness. Neediness essentially means placing a higher priority on what other thinks of you than what you think of yourself – Mark Manson Disclaimer: The purpose of the catharsis is to find what is right instead of focusing on who is right. I believe we should act like scientists, which are committed to the 'pursuit of truth', even if it ends up proving ourselves wrong. Neediness can manifest in all forms and domains of human expression and relations e.g., physical, psychological, to become/be someone, situations to be your way, discontentment and discomfort of what is and wanting it to be something else. Genenrally, humans have an amazing sensor for picking up neediness and distancing themselves from this passive manipulation and unattractive behaviour - Yoo-hoo, stalker alert! We all get needy from time to time. An overly independent person will see someone who has a more balanced app...
If knowledge is power, then knowing what we don't know is WISDOM. Integrity is about finding ‘WHAT’ is right and not ‘WHO’ is right - Adam Grant